Beginner’s Ass Play

One of the things I haven’t talked about recently is good old-fashioned ass play. Sounds kind of scary, doesn’t it? It doesn’t have to be, though, if you use some common sense, gentle guidance, and plenty of lubrication! Is anal penetration something you’ve wondered about? Or do you crave it? Is it something you can’t get enough of? Well, let’s see what we can do to get you started on the path toward some back-door fun! First of all a bit of getting to know yourself!

WebMD tells us that by stimulating the prostate gland you can actually orgasm! The way I like to describe your prostate is when you insert a finger inside you you will feel a differently textured spot-and I’m sure the stimulation will be noticeably different than just regular skin! You can also massage your prostate by using pressure against the perineum, that tight smooth skin under your balls between them and your tight little hole. I’d love for you to have nicely trimmed nails and some lube, and let’s see if you can find your prostate. We can do this during a session, or you can find it before our call. 

Gathering Your Toys and Supplies

Some of you have the goal of getting plundered by a lovely eight-inch cock, but if you are new to ass play  I don’t recommend the “go big or go home “ method! I want you to ease into anal play by starting small. Some of you do that by beginning with a butt plug- I hear the vibrating ones are amazing! Some of you go straight for a dildo or even a vibrator that is just round and slender- not one that looks like an actual cock. I’ve found with first timers a six or seven-inch basic vibrator with a lovely tapered tip is perfect for your needs. Be sure you get plenty of fresh batteries!! Yes, big cocks are fun, but you want to find out if this is right for you before you invest in the excellent stuff!

So, now you’ve got your toy, or you are starting with a butt plug. Make sure you get the correct type of lubrication for the material your toy is made of! I found that water-based lube is the safest all around. It just may need reapplication. Silicone lube is slipperier, but not suitable for all toys, or condoms! And yes, grab that second tube of lube! Better safe than sorry! Now, some folks like to lay a towel down under themselves so the lube doesn’t get on the linens or furniture, so keep that in mind as your prepare for your ass play fun. You should also relax! Stretch a bit, maybe. Take some deep breaths, ensure you don’t have a tight time frame, and prepare yourself to have your mind blown.

Take a Deep Breath!

Now, like I said, you must relax! Do not anticipate the pain, just know there may be some, but it will pass as quickly as it came, and this will all be worth it! One of my favorite things is to be on the phone with you when you experience this for the first time. To hear your breathing, the little moans of pleasure, all of it. I like to encourage you to ride out the initial pressure and enjoy the penetration.  Ass play on your own can be one of the most sexually erotic and intimate things you can experience on your own. Let me join you and share the experience with you!

Solitary ass play may be your only goal, but if you have far different goals with penetration we can and should role-play about those! Mistress with a strap-on? Lover? Bull with a BBC? Let’s make it happen! Don’t forget that this month is my phonesex anniversary, so for every twenty minutes you spend with me we will enjoy an additional five free to you minutes! Let’s make things happen!

Talk to you soon!

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