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Ass Play for Beginners
My third favorite kinky phone sex topic is almost anything to do with penetrating your ass! Whether it’s you by yourself, me with the appropriate toy, a man that you are servicing, or your lover, anal sex is something you really need to become accustomed to! It’s a feeling like no other, and once you learn the steps necessary to make it as comfortable as possible, you will wonder why you never tried it before!
Keep that Ass Slippery and Safe
First and foremost, ass health and safety. You need an excellent silicone-based lubrication. It won’t absorb into your skin and will keep you slippery for a good while, although reapplications may be needed, so keep plenty of it handy!! I know it may be embarrassing for you to pick up that stuff at your local pharmacy, but hundreds of people do it every day, so get over it and grab some Astroglide or something similar. Second, I would absolutely hope it goes without saying, but just in case, never ever go ass to mouth with someone’s dick or a toy. It’s just not right. Third, if you are doing a scene with someone else, discuss boundaries and safe words, but also trust your Mistress to know what she’s doing. Don’t ask a stranger to ass fuck you! Still preaching it here: safe, sane, and consensual!
Tools of the Trade
If you are an ass virgin, and you are working with me, I’ll suggest you get a set of graduated butt plugs such as these. There is no shame in taking things slow, stretching your ass so it accommodates the large cock you ache for. If you think you are ready to just dive in and go for it, you need to find the ideal cock for your ass fucking cravings. I recommend ones that look realistic with a suction cup and/or balls. It should have a firm smooth texture, with a little bit of flexibility. At some point, you may want to graduate to a vibrating toy, or even one angled as a prostate massager, especially when we start to treat your ass like a pussy and expect you to orgasm from penetration alone.
Popping Your Cherry
To begin the adventure of ass fucking, you are going to need to commit to trusting me. You are going to have to lube up your puckered little cherry hole, and even insert a finger or two to lube up the inside. You are going to have to listen to me when I tell you to relax and breathe deeply and slowly. This tight little virgin hole is really snug, so the stretching may be a bit uncomfortable, but if you listen well, soon you will be filled up with your own personal fuck toy, wondering why you waited to so long to begin ass training! Even if you doubt yourself, I have faith that you can and will take it all, and crave more!
Ready to begin? Can’t wait to talk to you about number three of my top ten favorite phone sex topics!
p.s. Watch for a blog about DIY ass toys soon!
Talk to you soon!
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I am on Sissy Meet looking for other sissies or a not for profit Misstress or Dominant woman to peg & put me in chastity . Wish me luck ????
I bought a nice new silver with purple jeweled butt plug enjoying it now while blogging
How pretty it must be!
Ass play I was so ignorant of the pleasure of ass play i have 2 wonderful jeweled and a suction cup mounted since using them i think my ass wiggles when walking i leave one in my ass all night having pleasant dreams
I am on Tumblr and not shy showing my ass or plugg there but ass selfies are HARD to take. My selfie stick is broken & it’s not the only broken stick a sissy has.
One stick you can replace, the other stick will never work right! I miss being on Tumblr, it just got strict and I left…
Well i got smart and figured out the game never reblog with nude or your own nude unlesd it is in private message. And i am not shy about showing my tiny clitty
I tried fixing the selfie stick with J B weld didn’t work .Next time i may use tie ties
Or tie wraps. The other stick surprise me and woke up 2 times this week half way there
I am on world press and it is unreal like no censorship at all posting some well you know
Sounds like something to be opened(lol ) for suggestions.
Mistress how is the best way to clean out prior to ass play ?
Emily- there are a few ways to remain hygienic. You can do some research online to determine which way will be best for you and your partner (even if you are your own partner!) Make sure a condom is always a part of what you gather together to play- even with a toy, it really makes a difference!
Mistress Stephanie, after just a couple calls with You, there would be NO ONE surprised that this is one of Your top ten, let alone so close to #1! You have proven Yourself completely trustworthy, and have demonstrated not only much knowledge in this area, but a deep-seated concern for Your callers. Time with You is ALWAYS a good time!
Ms. Stephanie, you know your asses! Wow, you covered it all. I am so glad you mentioned no mouth to ass play. No, no, no! That lube is the best and your callers should take notes. I know you are going to have plenty of ass play after this post!
I love toys up my sissy ass .
I found the right size butt plug medium silver with purple jeweled feels so good i sleep with this inserted. Do you think i might be a faggot because i sleep with a butt plug up my ass ?