Chastity for a Mistress

As I have previously, I will expound from time to time on the subject of chastity. And let’s make this personal, cupcake, your chastity. Yes, darling, YOU. 

I do want you in chastity, but only if that’s what YOU want. After all, it’s quite a dear sacrifice, and I fully understand that. It does represent a fresh and novel way of approaching sex, a pursuit of the opposite of sex. Realize that it is you who will pull the trigger, you who will pledge your commitment and confess that, “Yes, Mistress Stephanie, it is time for you to exercise your control over my sex life as you deem necessary, or as your whim dictates.” It starts and ends with you, dear. I’m simply in the middle. Think of your pledge of faithfulness to endure a chastity ride with me as a “Stephanie sandwich.” Why, why in the world would you do this? Relinquishing sex and handing over to ME, of all people, the keys to the “Porsche.” To forgo this most powerful craving of nature that animates you, occupies so much of your daily thought, and keeps you, and many people, going? Why leave the “normals” to join the singular life of the celibates of the world?

The Benefits of Chastity

Here’s why:

1. It’s difficult, quite difficult. It requires considerable concentration to purposely NOT pursue sex (solo or partnered). But isn’t that the charm? The mental power and clarity that you will bring to the remaining world will increase your chances of success at work, a project at school, politics, world hunger, or simply put a smile on my face. Doesn’t that make you feel warm inside? (Whoa there boy, don’t get too warm, you might fall off the “chastity” wagon. Of course, there is always the possibility that you will fail in your non-sexual endeavors. Your struggles when the odds are against you can, of course, be lonely, particularly in the midst of self-imposed celibacy and the attendant confusion. You have my admiration, my pet.

2. Your chastity in my honor immediately creates a connection between us. Only we know the tension, pressure, and frustration that you endure. It’s our secret. We know, but the world doesn’t. It’s our intimacy. As your chastity progresses by minutes, hours, days, weeks, and months, our connection strengthens. Chastity is an undertaking only for the strong. You are a strong man to embark on this daunting endeavor. As a mistress who so enjoys her sex, I am impressed by your sacrifice. I take notice of those boys under my control who accumulate impressive chastity milestones. I am in awe of my celibate pets (and, of course, in truth, a bit amused). What milestones impress me? I’ll let you know AFTER you meet them, my pet.

3. Your chastity changes the balance of power in the battle between the sexes. For example, let’s say you are single and it’s Saturday night. When you enter the party or enter the bar, you already know your outcome, no nookie at night’s end! You can relax and enjoy the festivities. No need to impress, no need to perform. No tension. You might as well seek true friendship. As for the battle of the sexes, you are defeated, vanquished before the night begins. You can chill. Let’s say you are married, the same thing! Relax! At night’s end, you will go to sleep without sexual satisfaction. Might as well get fall-down drunk. It’s counterintuitive, but your decision to be chaste puts you in control and in the driver’s seat. (OK, my argument is a bit perverse, but that’s what we’re about at LDW, perversions.)

4. For those of you for whom masturbation has become commonplace, chastity with me introduces a spark of the unknown into the equation. Can that spark light your fire? Compare these two scenarios: #1 guaranteed masturbation, guaranteed masturbation, guaranteed masturbation, guaranteed masturbation. #2 no guarantee of anything (touch, edging, near orgasm, orgasm). Will I allow you relief from chastity? When will I allow you relief from chastity? How do you feel when you consummate your masturbation? Is that consummation worth the humiliation, frustration, and torment? Can you learn to derive pleasure from the pleasure I feel when I deny you? Can you tap into my pleasure when I have full-fledged sex, knowing that you suffer and struggle so nobly in chastity? Do you get off on the knowledge that I get off on your misery? Only you can answer these questions. Know that my carnal pleasure and afterglow are heightened by your sexual agony. Particularly given that, for the most part, your predicament is of your own doing. (My role in your abstinence is small, isn’t it buttercup?)

5. Modesty, demureness, purity, immaculate, rectitude, honor, uprightness (though not of penis), innocence, incorruptibility, goodness, virginity, unpolluted, untouched, virtuous, righteous, straight, and true. These are the rewards of chastity. Aren’t they reasons enough to enter into chastity under my guidance?

Celebrate Celibacy!

I so admire those who trade the mating game for the absolute and ironclad safe sex world of celibacy. In doing so, you join a select group. Think of the 88,156 (as of 2012) Catholic priests and nuns in the United States, most of whom I would think have been celibate for some time. You also join the fortunate others in chastity who have similarly convinced themselves that celibacy is in their best interest. Whether your chastity is advertised by a collar around your neck, a habit on your head, a cage on your penis, or a solemn promise to me, you ARE a special part of a tiny fraction of humanity. Go for it, doll, and try as hard as you can to turn my head with an extended chastity run. After all, now you have so many good reasons my pet! And, if you can think of more reasons, please comment below, or confess them to me during our phone sex call, or rather our phone non-sex call!!

Talk to you soon!

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