Male Chastity is a Good Thing!
Had a fun talk with a caller the other day, discussing male chastity, and the reasons and logic behind it. Since it is something he was not familiar with, he was understandably scared and apprehensive. He just couldn’t comprehend the many ways it would actually benefit him to be in chastity, to give up that kind of control to his mistress. He understood how it benefits a mistress, how having that sort of control over a subs orgasms, over his penis itself, is more than sexual, more than the physical situational discomfort and aggravation the one in chastity may experience. He actually said, “Well, of course, the woman gets off on the man’s suffering!” He wrongly assumed that being constrained by long-term orgasm denial is solely punitive, though. (That’s fun, but the rewards are different!)
You Are Not Defined By Your Penis
Men and their identity are so closely tied to their penis, and by abdicating control of that penis, and its activities, a male can truly come to understand the complete servitude a mistress deserves. Sure, we like licked in all the right places. We like our homes tended to, bills paid, gifts given. We deserve men who are well endowed, excellent lovers who can do so much more than you men with a teeny peen. But what I personally really really enjoy is knowing that EVERYTHING about you is done in honor of me. Every waking moment is guided by the underlying thought of pleasing Ms Stephanie. It’s not just about sex or even your penis. It’s about giving up your most prized “possession” because you worship and adore me more. That’s what I enjoy.
Relinquishing Control Yields Great Returns
It’s a very strong testament to the fact that basically, you’ve got my back, in whatever way I need it, and in return, at some point in time, I will give you the gift you more than desire- the gift you crave- an orgasm of your own. You will remember that orgasm, that gift, as a highlight, because it will be an event so different from your everyday orgasms brought about by your chronic masturbation habits that it will stand out as the best one yet! The benefits of long-term male chastity are cumulative, in my eyes- I mean, if you go to the best vacation spot in the world every week, soon it would get run-of-the-mill, ordinary, and eventually boring. That’s how your orgasms have been, left to your own devices- fun, but nothing spectacular. When you relinquish control to a sensual yet dominant Mistress such as myself, you are signing up to relearn how amazing an orgasm can be, how special, and unique. Really, one amazing orgasm is a far far better choice than a dozen sad little squirts, don’t you think? With every day that passes, with every opportunity I provide you, you come to understand that I know precisely what I am doing, and just how committed I am to making you clear your mind of all those pitiful, preceding orgasms that you pulled off half heatedly and opened yourself up to the one benefit of a long term male chastity that you were initially most concerned about. Your lack of orgasms, you’re being denied, subjugating yourself to me, gives you far more long-term gratification than being left to your own amateurish devices.
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Empress Stephanie, you have made a great point about chastity. Who wouldn’t prefer to have an extra, intense orgasm to one that just happens???? The smart , considerate male will be willing to put himself in your hands, literally. Sometimes, it takes getting used to, that we, as mistresses know best for a man’s cock. The rewards of chastity really do out weigh the negatives. You are right ,that it is something done to honor a mistress.
Ms Lena- I think that so often men are scared of losing that control over their choice to masturbate just whenever, but when they realize that even as a strict Mistress, we do have their best interests at heart (mostly!!)then they can really begin to understand the whole process of long term chastity.
This is brilliant! I don’t know if I have ever read it put better. It is rather symbiotic. we crave to be “Loved, Locked and Owned” by you, and he believes that wearing a chastity device will demonstrate his commitment and faithfulness to you….Hoping to b locked until we drip to show our devotion! And our Mistress, well as you said………..” really, really enjoy[s]… knowing that EVERYTHING about you is done in honor of me. Every waking moment is guided by the underlying thought of pleasing [our Mistress]. It’s not just about sex, or even your penis. It’s about giving up your most prized “possession” because you worship and adore me more!…..So well said!!! Thank you!
Thank you for the lovely compliments! I really think that men can come to the understanding that it’s not always torture to be locked in chastity! It’s sometimes a rough path, especially in the beginning, but always well worth sticking with your Mistress to reap the rewards.
Such vivid descriptions Empress Stephanie! Makes me really see the value of being locked up.
Thank you! I think it is something every male should experience at least once in their life. Long term chastity is so good for learning so many things about yourself, and sort of wiping the slate clean of any negative patterns.