Clarity and Intentions
Now that I’ve talked about the fact that much of what I do on a phonesex call is fantasy, I want to talk to you about the one thing that I fully embrace as something we can work together on. I believe deeply in empowering you to be the best sissy you can manage to be at the place in your life that you are right now. This started out as a desire to empower women years ago, but since coming to the Enchantrix Empire I have heartily enjoyed helping you in your feminization and sissification desires.
What this means to each of you sissy gals is just as individualized and unique as you are, and I absolutely love that! Some of you have entire households of people and have to hide your feminine nature, and some of you are the only person at home and therefore have far more freedom to be who you are. During our feminization sessions, I meet you exactly where you are, and we build what we can with what we have. There are steps to be taken based on your situation, and I want to be here every step of the way as you take your journey.
First Sissy Steps
One of the first steps I recommend to a fledgling sissy is to go to a salon and get a basic manicure and pedicure. The beauty in that is that you can do so without getting any polish applied if you are in a secret sissy situation! If you live in a small town, go to the next town over. If you are uncomfortable going to a place where you just walk in and wait, call ahead and ask if you can make an appointment. If you don’t mind the places that take a walk-in customer, just look for a place in a strip mall! You do want to be mindful of the fact that just because you are basically an anonymous face in a crowd of many customers, you don’t need to overshare your story and inflict your kink on an innocent bystander or even the nail tech. Unless you are specifically asked if you are a sissy! Then, being mindful of those around you, you can engage in that conversation.
Sissy Grooming Tips
Another step a secret sissy can take is changing your grooming habits in small ways, such as applying lotion after every shower and every time you wash your hands. If you are a secret sissy there are plenty of lotions out there targeted toward a masculine market. Nivea is one that I believe is gender-neutral. If you can take a tiny risk, I always recommend original Jergens lotion. It has a light cherry almond scent, but it’s not so overpoweringly feminine that you will be exposed. If you are on your own, and able to do as you wish, go wild! Just remember to not try too many scents at once, your nose will get overwhelmed! Obviously, if you are still a secret sissy at work, you will have to wait for the good stuff when you walk in the door and you can let your hair down.
Speaking of hair, that’s something you can modify, too. No matter what your situation, you can, as a male, have long or longish hair. Do some research on a cut or style that can transition from masculine to feminine. Google “androgynous haircuts” and see what catches your eye. If you simply can not change your hair because of business reasons, but have no issues in your private life, then wigs may be the answer. Is there a wig shop near you? Call them first, and ask if they are trans-friendly. They don’t need you to explain your entire story to them! Keep it simple. If you don’t have access to a shop, Amazon has some nice wigs. Make sure you do all the measuring they recommend, and you must remember to look at the reviews! It doesn’t matter if it’s a five-star review if they only have 20 reviews, you want something that has hundreds or thousands of reviews, even if they only have 4 stars. Read the review, also!
Sissy Shenanigans
One more thing, especially for you sissy gals out there. This is the month for the 2024 Sissy Pageant. You can get the details over at the Enchantrix Empire – join if you haven’t yet, and then navigate to the Sissy Pageant group where you will find all the guidelines and rules. One of the nice things about the pageant is that you will have an opportunity to share your true feminine self with us and be amongst like-minded folks. So, don’t be shy, go sign up, read the guidelines, and show off your style! I can’t wait to see you there!
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Awesome post as always Ms. Stephanie, I really loved it because you really understand us closet girls ! I really like experimenting with the nice scented lotions, when i can get the privacy, i like putting the lotions on my nipples its very arousing to me ! and just the feminine smells in general, are amazing to me , i did try the wig thing before, it was nice, but i really didn’t know what i was doing with it , i have had a lot of purging issues, which gets real complicated, and expensive unfortunately ! i just kinda started dabbling with some lip balms, mostly just basic so far, another issue i usually have is trying to find bigger sizes for undies teddys etc i mostly end up buying from adult boutiques etc. hard to find sizes there but it seems the only place i feel safe, if there’s a girl working there ! Thanks for a great post !! xoxos
Viola- thanks for stopping by! I’m glad my post resonates with you. If you message me this week I can try and share some links to some clothing store that may work for you online, as long as you know your size or have a measuring tape!
Thanks for the tips, it’s amazing. It’s so great to hear such support from a woman. I really appreciate it! You are amazing, thank you so much!
Have a great day, Mistress Stephanie!
Casandra- Thank you for coming by! In another lifetime my dream was to empower women, and I love when I am still able to do so!
Mistress Stephanie,
I’m not a woman I’m sissy:)
It’s just a coincidence of names:) but it’s still a beautiful dream:)
Have a wonderful day and thank you very much!
Thank you for the well thought out post Mistress. All of the suggestions are wonderful and they all really do work. For those that resonate with being en femme, these activities can be very empowering.
Genie- Thank you for reading! I’m glad you found it of value, when I’m not dealing with lovely fantasies I want to empower women of all types!
Hi Ms Stephanie. I went ahead and entered The Sissy Pageant! Looks like everyone will have fun, particularly the Mistresses! I did get a pedicure before my back surgery…couldn’t bend over to clip my nails! Now? I have NO problem “bending over”! ????????
little peg! Sounds like surgery was successful, but don’t give up the pedicures! I’m about to go check out the contestants so far so I don’t get terribly behind. It’s turning out to be great fun!
Hi, well at first read I thought this article was a bit conservative. Then I realized that you are talking about taking real steps right into sissification/feminization ..real steps! Omg, this is more/better than just fantasy! So what was sounding like “conservative” is actually daring because it is for real – which is why one should use common sense. Especially in my case because : like right now, my heart is all a-flutter. Mistress Does know best !
Thank You and a Big Curtsy, Evelyn
Evelyn! Thank you for reading. Yes, although many calls are fantasy calls, I do enjoy helping a caller with the level of sissification or feminization they hope to achieve!