Communication is Always Key

At the beginning of a distance domination phonesex call, it’s especially important to communicate. Your expectations, my ability to meet those expectations, and, in addition, my expectations and your ability to meet those. All of this can be done at the beginning of the call, via email, or even in a conversation on Skype. I won’t go into deep sexual details in an email or on Skype, but we can speak freely about desired outcomes, and how we get there! Don’t forget I have a questionnaire that you can fill out to get the ball rolling, right here on my blog!

Building D/s Trust

I imagine communication will begin to build a level of trust. In addition, you can read some of my previous blog posts about domination and see how you feel about what you read. You will notice in those readings that while I can be quite playful, fun, and sensual, I do have standards and I can be strict in enforcing them! Perhaps communication outside of the call will also reassure you that I am here to give you the best session possible, which can only come about if I trust you to obey, and you trust me to guide you safely.

Setting the Scene for a Domination Call

I’m sure while we are building trust we are also discussing some background information about the session you wish to have, I know it all sounds very time-consuming, but if done on the phone we can have you settled in within five minutes! Obviously, emails take longer. Skype, as mentioned above, can be pretty helpful in setting up a phonesex domination call. This is also the time for you to share any trigger words, or especially sexy things you wish to take place during the call if you haven’t addressed that in the pre-session questions or elsewhere.

Creating Together

Once the session begins, it is up to me to bring your creative visions to life, to help you see and feel everything we have talked about. If you check out some of my reviews here you will see that detail-oriented storytelling is one of my specialties. I love to weave my words around you until you are caught up in a web of eroticism so intensely that you forget any misgivings you may have had about talking to a dominant woman or doing the kinky things we will be doing together.

Being in the Moment

Now we are getting into the depth of the session. (Speaking of which, I can do Skype calls or texting!) You are going to relax and listen to my words. Whether it is an intense CBT call, something to do with your attraction to cocks, or even a very naughty guided masturbation call, you will be drawn in. You will do as I say, behave as I tell you, or be punished. What punishment can I mete out during a distance domination call? Well, I can instantly deny your orgasm. I can refuse to speak to you for a period of time. I’ve been told, though, that the worst punishment for a truly submissive pet is disappointing me.  And isn’t that the point of your submission to a dominant woman? It’s to please her! 

Domination Aftercare

When the call is coming to an end, whether you have had a happy ending or been denied, there is some talking to be done. If, as I mentioned before, it was an intense CBT call, you may need to provide yourself with some self-care to soothe your aches and pains. I like to talk to you as you transition from the trembling, drained, very satisfied caller on the other end of the line to someone who is breathing more calmly, and whose heart rate returns to normal. I like to share with you the sensations and feelings I am experiencing as well because if I have taken you deep into subspace, I no doubt have had an intense session and need to unwind also! We can say our goodbyes and go on about our business, knowing that together we created something wonderful. Remember, if you do enjoy our time together you can rate my call and be entered to win a 30-minute call! 

I hope you have a better idea of how phonesex domination works now, and you decide to indulge yourself soon. I can’t wait to explore your submissive side with you!

Talk to you soon!