Men’s Health Month

In addition to us all taking pride in our kinks this month, I’d like to take a moment to recognize that it is Men’s Health Month! It’s not just about your physical health, but also your mental and emotional health. In some ways, these are all tied together, though, and I’d like you to see the ways in which speaking with your Empress can help you reach a health goal.

Getting it off Your Chest

In taking care of your mental health, you free up space in your brain to deal with regular daily activities such as work and play, and just being yourself. Maybe you just need to get some things off your chest. Confiding in your Mistress can help you feel free from any secrets that may have been weighing you down! An LDW Mistress is a safe and secure person to confide in. We are not only intelligent, but creative, and may offer suggestions to resolve any of your stressors. Give us your secrets, and let them go!

Physical Health is Vital

Your physical health is of vital importance! It is imperative that you see your doctor for an annual check-up, and make sure you deal with any health concerns in a timely fashion. It’s better to see the doctor than continue to suffer. In this category also falls the ever-so-important prostate exam! If you are of a certain age, or have a family history of prostate issues, get checked! A finger up your ass is far better than the alternative, and could possibly be the difference between a working penis and a lifelong limp dick. Here’s a hint I picked up from a caller who recently found out he was diabetic. Be careful how much cum you swallow in a 24-hour period, because if you are a glory hole slut you may be getting too much, and it may disrupt your health!

Another health-related issue is movement. If you are going from car to desk to couch, you aren’t getting enough activity in! Try a walk around the block a few days a week. Find an activity you enjoy, and engage in it regularly. Axe throwing is big around here, like bowling used to be.  Done correctly, it may help relax you and get some negative emotions out of your system. Just make sure whatever activity you choose you stay well hydrated!

Getting to the Heart of It

Emotional health is a little different than mental health. It’s about expressing your feelings in an appropriate way, acknowledging the negative ones, and rejoicing in the positive ones. It’s also about letting go of negativity, even negativity from within. There’s no reason to dwell on the negative, unless of course, you are into humiliation, then please share your shortcomings with me! Other kinks can be shared also. You are not alone. I have heard nearly everything from A to Z in the kinky phone sex calls I do, so nothing will truly shock me! I’d love to hear all about it.

Self-Care for Good Health

The final component of men’s health I am going to discuss is self-care. At home, you should be using lotion on your body. There are several brands out there that specifically cater to me, some without scents even! You know you take hot showers! You are depleting the natural oils from your skin, so lotion is a must. When you go outdoors, of course, sunscreen is imperative! Make sure you put some on your face, too. You could even wear a spiffy wide-brimmed straw hat, or something similar that you could pull off. Try it! 

Something that may be a little more difficult to wrap your head around is the fact that you, too, can go to the salon and get a manicure and a pedicure- without polish! Of course, if polish is your thing, enjoy! If that seems to be too much though, go for a plain, natural mani/pedi. Nobody likes scaly feet, and you probably weren’t raised to tend to your tootsies. Let a professional take care of you. It will relax you and you will feel amazing and snazzy afterward!

One of the most important components of self-care is relaxation. What’s your go-to relaxation method? If I know the answer, it just proves that most guys feel the same way!  You like to masturbate, right? It helps you relax and unwind. It can cure headaches, too! Whether you enjoy being told how to touch yourself, or you want a roleplay call, talking with your Mistress will definitely help you relax- especially if you are allowed a happy ending! Masturbation is healthy and completely natural. If you were ever shamed for it, we can unpack that and rewire your thought patterns to understand how normal it is to masturbate.

Remember, I am not a healthcare expert, but I do know stuff. Things you can do for yourself can lead to a happier and more productive you. I’m willing to talk with you about any of these topics- I make a great confidant-but if you only call for one reason, let it be to celebrate the natural and healthy ways you can masturbate to enjoy taking care of yourself!

Talk to you soon!

p.s. Thank you to a special caller who alerted me to this being Men’s Health Month!