Masturbation May Blog Train Fun

Here at the Enchantrix Empire, we’ve been celebrating Masturbation May in a big way! If you followed the links from Ms. Cassidy’s blog, welcome! If you’re in the middle of the blog train, go on back to the beginning with Ms. Brighton and start from there. There’s lots of sexy and intelligent material in between here and there to entertain you! My contribution to the Masturbation May Blog Train involves one of my favorite things- building anticipation! 

Has it Been The Best it Can Be?

Of course, you have been masturbating this month, it’s almost a requirement for Masturbation May. But have you been getting as much out of your stroking as you can? Have you really enjoyed yourself, or is it just run of the mill jerking? I’m here to tell you, edging is the way to make the most of your masturbation experience. You know I love to tease, right? Tease and delay, tease and deny even sometimes! Well, edging is basically teasing and delay.

How to Edge Yourself

Have you never teased yourself before? You just go full speed ahead as you enjoy your masturbation session, never slowing down or pausing to really take in the feeling of your hand gliding over your smooth skin. I’m here to tell you that you are missing out! Masturbation doesn’t need to be a race to the finish line, you can enjoy the journey just as much as you can enjoy your final destination.

What I want you to do instead of vigorously jerking off until you explode is to take a step back and enjoy your masturbation session a little differently. I want you to masturbate mindfully, enjoying the way it feels as that orgasm builds from within. I want you to continue this until you are almost ready to climax, and then I want you to stop. Take a deep breath and let that feeling subside. 

Then start your masturbation activities again. Slowly begin your ritual of stroking. Act as if you are just starting, not starting over. Take it slow and easy, and let that feeling of pleasure build. Enjoy the anticipation of how good it will feel when you finally release. Build yourself up to that point right before orgasm and stop again. 

Trust Me, I’m a Professional

I know it seems unnatural, to delay your self-gratification, but trust me on this. Masturbation edging is one of the best inventions since sliced bread! You can make it a personal competition with yourself to see how many edges you can reach before you allow yourself to orgasm. Sometimes your Mistress will allow you a certain number of edges per day while delaying ( sometimes by days!) that yearned for orgasm.

Whatever the situation you find yourself in, Masturbation May is a good time to explore multiple facets of guided masturbation, and being on board the Enchantrix Empire Masturbation May Blog train is a great way to find new and creative things to do -or not do- when you masturbate! If you want to try edging with an experienced Mistress, give me a call. I’d love to talk you through several rounds of edging masturbation fun. If you aren’t sure you are ready to give up that much control over your masturbation, try it yourself and then tell me how many edges you reached. 

Thanks for stopping by! Now follow this link over to Ms. Lilith’s blog to see the next stop on the Masturbation May Blog Train.

Talk to you soon!