I’ve been exchanging some emails with a caller regarding cuckolding. He feels that there is a biological component to what makes a person more likely to become a cuckold. Based on my experience here at the Enchantrix Empire, I’d have to say he may not be wrong.
If you took a survey of all the Mistresses, I’d bet that they would agree, off the top of their heads, that 10% or less of the men who have been cuckolded have above average dicks. I’m talking about 8 inches or more.
I just don’t hear a lot of people say “Yes, I’ve got 8/9 inches, but my wife/girlfriend wants more.” As a matter of fact, I can only recall people speaking of 7/8 inches., and of course far less than that. So are small-dicked men more likely to become a cuckold? I’d have to say yes, based on my personal experience.
Yes, a woman may really like sex, and be bored with her significant other. He may be small, he may not last long enough, or he may just be boring. Those are all valid reasons a woman may cuckold her man. But I’ve got to say the reason most cited in phone calls to me is that their woman isn’t satisfied with their teeny peen.
This truly supports the statement “Love is blind.” because if those women who fell in love with a shrimp dicked man could see clearly, they would realize they needed a special arrangement from the start so as to be sexually satisfied.
So, biologically speaking, some men have pin dicks. Statistically speaking, a percentage of the male population is cuckolded. Anecdotally speaking, I’d have to say the men who become cuckolds largely seem to have a small penis. Correlation does not imply causation, though, but in my opinion, it is too much of a coincidence to ignore.
As a twice-divorced husband who had both wives be unfaithful in my marriages, i would have to say that my small size(3.5 inches erect) played a major role in their infidelity. i should point out that i in both cases forgave them and asked them to stay with me. That didn’t happen because they needed more than i could provide.
Since those times i realized that being a cuckold was a huge turn on for me and i would now like to find a third wife who would consider a HotWife/cuckold D/s marriage. By being upfront i think this type of union would suit me best.
bobthewimp- I agree, being upfront about the type f relationship you are seeking is exactly the way to go! You will soon enough find that perfect person to fulfill your desire to be the cuckold hubby you know you are. Thanks for stopping by!
This is a good and interesting post. I have wondered about this as well. I think we humans forget that we are also “animals”. I think in heterosexual circumstances the males are often or maybe always the ones in “pursuit”. The female “decides” if you are “eligible” or not. Part of her decision is based on our male characteristics. “Size” is not the only measure of eligibility but in honesty I think it is often one that women consider either explicitly or subconsciously. All women have requirements as to what they need or want in a partner.
I myself (to my knowledge) have never been “cuckolded” in the sense that you see in film or that I know does occur in some relationships. However I have absolutely had women make it clear that either there “would be others” or pop me into the “hopeful friend zone” while openly dating guys who I knew darn well were much bigger. Was “size” the only factor – probably not. Was it significant? I think yes.
Jim- very interesting comment, reminding us that we are all animals by nature. Women do get to pick and choose amongst those in pursuit, and often balance stability with fun. Regrets may happen down the road, and I think that is where the friend zone comes into play. I also think size is a significant factor in choosing a mate, it tends to signify masculinity in the eye of the beholder. Thanks for stopping by!
It may never occur openly but part of me thinks it should – that the “issue” of size was more “on the table” between women and men. I think unless you are lucky enough to find a very forgiving female smaller men are generally better off accepting how things are. There is not much to do about it and I think it can annoy women if you try to hide it.
I have long wondered about this. I don’t think it is openly spoken of a whole lot. It makes sense to me that small men are more vulnerable to this. Either their wives want it, or they want it for their wives or both. I expect men who learn to accept that they are small are better off.
O- I agree- accepting reality is so much better than being delusional! You are correct, cuckolding isn’t spoken of often, but from what I hear, the fantasy and the reality are far more prevalent than one might think! Thanks for reading!
I’m not married but I’ve been cuckolded by my friend who is. She told me not to worry about her husband or care what others think anymore. Especially now that she’s selling women’s clothes and wants me to buy them from her. We’ve decided this is what’s best and needed for me as she has pictures of me with her phone dressed up. Now that she’s seen me this way along with giving me her old bras along wearing my breast forms as well feminine arched eyebrows. My feminization is for real as I really do want to do this. Seeing how I look dressed in women’s clothes this is what I want and I’m so thankful she’s going to take part of this with me.