Listen to me read to you about trust and communication here.
Trust Me, I Know What I’m Doing
I talk a lot about communication in my writing, but I want to talk about something equally important-trust. In your relationship with a phone sex mistress, you have to trust us to deliver the phonesex call you want. You give us a basic premise, and we weave it into the fantasy you called in for.
Verification Matters
We have to have faith in you, too. If you are calling for a ruined orgasm – or you are just getting one because you deserve it- we believe you are going to let go of your dick when you are told. Obviously, on Skype, we can verify the ruination of your orgasm, but without that, we have to trust that you followed directions. 
Earning It
In my opinion, the most important time we need to have a trusting relationship is if you are voluntarily in cageless chastity. In our D/s relationship, we have had the conversation about a safe, sane and consensual fantasy. You have agreed to be in chastity. Therefore, I expect you to follow through.
Because I Know What’s Best for You
To be a good chastity toy, you must be committed. You must communicate. I must be able to trust you. That trust comes with communication. It’s all tied together, just like your dick is virtually tied up. Commit to chastity – you won’t regret it in the long run.
