Listen to me read about you accepting that you are a cuckold here.
The Making of a Cuckold Husband
Sometimes I just need a good laugh, and one cuckold caller really came through for me recently. He was complaining about how his wife has gone out and found a new lover, and he just doesn’t understand why. He went on to give me some reasons he thought might have driven her into another man’s arms, and bed. He figured it was because he’d been working so much to provide her with the best of everything, but she was lacking his time and attention. Then he said maybe it was because they had to cancel their recent vacation due to work obligations.
The Truth Comes Out
So, I’m commiserating with this poor cuckold fella, as I do sometimes, trying to come up with ways to entice the wife to come back home. Things that will show her that the job issues are only temporary and he only works so hard so he can spoil her. Then I asked the most important question…how big is his dick. Well, his answer told me everything I needed to know about the entire situation.
Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness
Wifey wasn’t lonely. She wasn’t even upset about the missed vacation. Not at all! She was in the market for an above average cock, certainly not the “almost” four inches he had to offer. She wanted the benefits she could never get in the marriage bed. No matter how big his paycheck, no matter how lavish the vacations, a teeny peen makes it extremely hard to keep a hot wife happy.
She’s Keeping the Bull
That is what turned him into a cuckold. He pays the bills, buys her everything she desires, but no matter how hard he tries, no matter how skilled his tongue is, his fate was sealed once his hot wife found out what it’s like to be with a real man with a big cock. There’s no going back for her at this point, and now that I know the truth about him, the cuckold hubby needs to accept his fate and do what he can to make his wife happy, since his small peen will never do the trick! 
Cuckold Acceptance
Do you worry that your wife will figure out that a big dick is better than your little thing? Why not just accept the inevitable, realize you will never truly satisfy her, and encourage her to seek out the big cock she deserves. After all, being a cuckold means at least you get to keep her happy in some ways! Accepting your fate makes life better for everyone.
I will never get used to cuckolding. I do accept that I have a small penis and am quick. She knew that before she married me. She is open about wanting a full sized man for sex. My role is reduced to oral. She says I am good at that and am her licking specialist. I am very embarrassed she has told her friends about her boyfriends. I have become almost a girlfriend and she has reinforced this humiliation.
Martha- Communication is key, and her sharing her desires with you is good. You will eventually come to appreciate that the woman you love is getting what she deserves in bed. Thanks for reading!
My wife has made me her cuckold and although I’ve enjoyed it immensely, I couldn’t help shake the feeling that having a wife who wants to be free to fuck anyone she wants while making me be faithful to her is somehow wrong. Even though it’s a huge turn on. But I’m realizing that nothing is wrong, I accept it and embrace now & have never been happier & more satisfied
Tony- Thanks for stopping by! I am glad you are feeling comfortable in your situation. If it’s safe, sane, and consensual, that’s all that matters, right? Take care!
This happened to me and I did not know what to do. I did not want a divorce. I knew she had sex with others before we met but did not expect her to cheat. I knew the man she was having the affair with and that was humiliating. But I accepted it.
I’m really glad you were able to swallow your pride (among other things?) and let your wife get what she needed from him, no matter how much humiliation you endured as a result. Some men are born to be cuckolds, it’s the most natural thing in the world and fighting it only makes things worse.
Thank you for the post! I am still accepting my cuckold status. I’m younger and single now, but one of my gfs cheated on me in the past and told me she was attracted to the more dominant man. Another talked about cuckolding me, and may actually have. Sometimes it’s hard to accept, but hearing the blunt truth helps, and I’m working to accept I’ll probably always be a cuckold because that is my natural place with a small penis and a submissive disposition – serving, both with my tongue sexually and in life making a cuckoldress’ life easier. it’s humiliating, but it also feels natural, I think. So again, thanks.
I’m glad you are coming to understand your place in the scheme of things. Being cuckolded isn’t always a bad thing, honestly!
Actually, a part of me wishes I had gotten the concept of “acceptance” at a younger age. I recall very early on learning that girls cared about, thought about and embraced guys who were “bigger” – or at least average. I think it is natural for a guy to want to hear a girl say “wow” or “oh my gosh” or “you’re really big”. If guys are honest we want to hear that. But if you are hovering under the 4-inch mark I think it is unlikely to happen probably ever. Initially (and for years) this is frustrating – you want to be more like “those guys”. But over time you sort of accept and find other ways to be in women’s lives or “play another role”. It is not as good but does not have to be “bad”. I learned to do more for women. Just help out where I can. Do errands. Be a good friend and yes – pay for things more frequently. I do not feel this is being used – it is just the human condition. It can earn you a “friend” place. Not always what you prefer but still nice.
Owen-It seems like you have a good attitude about this. Just like I’ll never be a petite five foot two princesses so many men admire ( at five foot nine that ship has sailed) men with small penises need to understand their place in a social hierarchy. I’ve often found that men who can’t satisfy via penetration are exceptionally skilled orally, and who doesn’t like that??!! Acceptance isn’t the same as resignation and doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Having friends is always a good thing!
Though I’m not married and she is as she told me not to worry about her husband. I’ve accepted that I’m a feminized cuckold by my masseuse as she put makeup/lipstick on me valentine’s day along with having me wear her old bras/panties/taken pictures with her phone of me in dresses/wig/using same facial creams and lotions she uses along with perfumes mixed with lotions on my massages and cheeks with mandatory waxings every 4 weeks keeping me girlish smelling/soft and smooth from head down. With all of this happening, I’m not boyfriend material anymore as she’s taken control over my spending and my life.
Paulina-it’s a good thing your masseuse has taken you in hand and helped you find your true self. It sounds like she really knows what she’s doing.