Listen to me read this to you here.
Orgasm Fun With Ms. Stephanie
I want to discuss ruined orgasms with you. Have you ever experienced one? Was it as terrible and exhilarating as it seems to be? Maybe the exhilaration is simply my perspective. I’ve not had a lot of experience with ruining orgasms on the phone, because it’s easier for you to mislead me if I can’t see what you’re doing. I’ve found the answer to that! I need you to help me out.
Ruined on Skype
Let me watch you on Skype while I practice ruining your orgasm. Do you think an experienced Mistress should have perfected this skill? That’s the thing, it’s never absolutely perfect until I have ruined your orgasm. You know you want to help me practice! it’s so easy, too. Just set up your webcam, log into Skype, and give me a call.
Orgasms Are Fun, Ruined or Not
So what specifically is a ruined orgasm? You still get to stroke for me. You still get to be teased and guided by me. You also get to show your devotion to me by explicitly following my directions. Doesn’t sound so bad now does it?
Shoot me an email, or find me on Skype @ms.stephanieldw, and let me practice my skills with you.
I bet you won’t be disappointed, ruined or not.
You still get to cum, so how bad can it really be?
Talk to you soon!
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Ms Stephanie, I’m ready to have you start practicing on me. Another mistress previously ruined my orgasm because I came without her permission and it was all I could think about for the next two days. Since I don’t use Skype, I think a forewarning will help and once we have perfected the approach, then surprise me with it. To let go at exactly the right moment and give up all the intense pleasure because your mistress demands it is definitely a Pro for both the sub and the Mistress.
Stroker Pet- I look forward to making a ruined orgasm part of our “Will He or Won’t He??!” January fun and games.I’m sure I’ve grown confident enough in decoding your breathing to make a ruined orgasm happen for you, and I know your desire to please will have you following directions. Be ready! You never know when it will sneak up on you!
Dear Mistress Stephanie,
I so enjoyed listening to your tongue-and-cheek blog on this unpleasant, deplorable, and awesome practice. (Stop playing coy, Mistress, you know how unfortunate a ruined orgasm is for the male. “Ruined” says it all.)
Following are the ruined orgasm pro’s and con’s from the male perspective.
First, the con’s.
1. Huge buildup with no ultimate pleasure. (Sub drop time: a severe case of “The Mondays!”)
2. Refractory period means no pleasure for some time (some time = too long)
3. Feelings of powerlessness and intense guilt
Pro’s:
None, nunca, nothing, zero, zip, zilch . . . with the possible exception of attempting to ingratiate oneself to the dominatrix who denied the wondrous gratification for the male . . . and the opportunity for cum-consumption (that is, assuming the male is into such a thing, likely a rather small percentage of the species. [I surmise that most male cum eaters do so only to please their dom; at least that’s my intent when ingesting my warm, white, viscous gooey juice.])
Yes, “exhilarating” is an apt description, but only from YOUR perspective.
Question Stephanie: if I were to session with you, do you think you could convince me to ruin my orgasm in your honor? (Hint: there are clues to the answer in this comment.)
Sincerely,
Kevin
Kevin- I appreciate your detailed list of the pros and cons of a ruined orgasm. As far as your question, I often find a surprise ruined orgasm yields better results than being forewarned, so yes, I believe in my powers of persuasion!
Thank you Mistress for your reply. You explain that a “surprise ruined orgasm yields better results than being forewarned.” I am very intrigued! I wonder if your observation would apply to the “ruin-ee” (me) and the “ruin-er,” (you). If we session, and you ruin me, will I think that’s better than a . . . what’s the opposite of a “ruined” orgasm? LOL. A “full orgasm,” a “pleasurable orgasm,” just a simple, old “orgasm”? I’m not sure! Can you give me any assurances, or is the a pure gamble?
Kevin- very thought-provoking questions! I think if we had a session and I ruined your orgasm, you would have had so much fun masturbating that you would be pleased that I even let you finish, ruined or not. If we have agreed that you are open to a ruined orgasm, and I can read your cues well enough, then you will just have to take a gamble on what your happy ending will be!
Wow. Deal. You make me want to gamble. Thank you. Regards . . . until we session.
That feeling of exhilaration at the success of a ruined orgasm is definitely a mistress’s perspective – and our right, really. I love the sound of utter dejection and desperation in an obedient sub’s voice when he’s sitting there looking at his unsatisfying pool of worthless sperm. Does it even take 10 whole seconds before he starts begging for a real one? Lol.