Masturbation Cums in Many Varieties
Are you enjoying Masturbation May and taking advantage of the perks that come along with it? I certainly hope so! I wanted to talk to you about chastity, and the place masturbation often has while you are in chastity. I know often when you hear the word “chastity” you fear you will never ever get the pleasure of masturbation again, or at least not for a very long time. One thing you may find in many cases is that chastity can also be a very basic form of cock control. As much as I do enjoy keeping a pet in complete, locked down chastity for weeks and months on end, one of my favorite things about being on the phone with you is hearing the moans of pleasure when you do touch yourself, the excitement in your breathing, the inability to form complete sentences. If that means keeping you chaste even a few days past when you want to masturbate, that is absolutely my pleasure. 
Masturbation Plus Cock Control
I have a Stroker Pet, we’ve been playing off and on for a while now, and he has come to understand how much better his release is when he is denied for any period of time beyond what he expects. If it’s been four days, I encourage him to wait a full week. If he slips, he’s reminded that a quick tug of his pecker is usually a speedy route to an uneventful ejaculation. In order to really enjoy the full effect of an orgasm, it’s much more exciting to let the anticipation build over several days, with some gentle teasing cock control thrown in. We’ve been able to turn a vanilla JOI call into a very sexy and erotic masturbation session that gives him an explosive orgasm and leaves him a limp puddle of pleasure.
Don’t Take Yourself For Granted
What I say to you is this: Enjoy your masturbation sessions . Draw them out. Edge a bit. Tease yourself in the morning in the shower, but then stop. Surf porn on your phone at lunch, checking out what your favorite mistress is up to on her blog, Twitter or Tumblr. Let it build. Touch yourself as you fasten your seat belt on the way home. Treat yourself to a nice dinner, even if you bring it home to eat. Then, at the end of your day, or after several days of this, find your way to your favorite jack off place (preferably on Skype with me!). Finally, using gentle touches and slippery lube, explore your body. Don’t just go straight for your dick! Slide your slippery hand over your balls, caressing, sliding your fingers against your taint. Glide a finger down to brush across your tight little puckered hole. Tweak your nipples. Caress your shaft, gently, teasing just a little longer. Then, and only then, when you are aching, twitching, and throbbing in anticipation and need, go after that orgasm. Make sure it’s better than the last one, especially if you may be put back in chastity, leaving your cock under the control of your Mistress.
I sure love making pleasure puddles for you, Ms Stephanie; sorry I have disappointed you at times though. It’s always better and more intense when you give me permission so I have to learn do please you better.
Stroker Pet- I know that our time together has shed some light on how much more amazing an orgasm can be. I understand that you are only a man with urges and desires, and it’s difficult to follow my guidelines, but I have high hopes that things will get back on track and the orgasms will be mind blowing again.
Good things cum to those who wait. You have so vividly described this principle, Ms Stephanie. Great that a chastity slave can endure longer for the benefit of a more intense session and orgasm in the end.
Thank you Ms Rayne- and you are right- good things do cum to those who wait, and follow directions! Patience is a virtue, and a chastity slave must learn that we know what is best for them in the long run.
Edging is a great form of both torment and momentary relief without orgasm, so long as they aren’t naughty and go over the edge… pun intended. But of course like you described, you can touch yourself all over, without release, and after those days, weeks, or months, that release will be soo much more rewarding!
Ms Brighton- Exactly! Even when I masturbate, I don’t always go straight for the main event! It’s the anticipation that makes it even better. When I make a chastity boy wait, it’s only because I know it is in his best interest!
Ms Stephanie, you truly are the epitome of the masturbation guide! I absolutely love how you have described the importance of prolonging a masturbation experience as much as possible. So many guys just go straight for their dicks and “rub one out” the moment they start to feel aroused, and then they wonder why their orgasms are becoming so unsatisfying. Listen to what Ms. Stephanie is telling you, stroker boys, and you will be VERY happy!! xo
Ms Sierra- I’m sure one day the men will realize that Femdom women really do know what is best for them, and will one by one begin to comply. Even when not in chastity, prolonging the self love is so much more satisfying!
Mistress Stephanie!
Not only are you gorgeous but you have such a naughty way of thinking! I have to admit, I too love love LOVE those moans of passion and desire, hearing the struggle in their voices keeping themselves from orgasm, for us, because of us! After a few days or few weeks of chastity their energy is off the charts on those calls!
Loved this post, thank you!
Ms Erika- thank you for the complement my sexy friend! It is absolutely the moans, the struggle to hold back, the catch in their breath that turns me on in a way that can’t be explained. I will always be in favor of at least tease and delay, if not denial, just to elicit the sounds I enjoy!