Are you following along with the Sugar Plum Femdoms? Make sure you read the holiday post from Ms. Alexis!
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Getting Ready for Santa
Have you been naughty or nice? Do you think both of those can be opposite sides of the same coin? I suspect they often can be! I know I can be very very naughty, but I’m a nice person- as long as I get my way!That’s a topic for another day, though. Right now I want to touch on things that are both naughty and nice, since Santa is checking, and we don’t want any confusion! 
Masturbation vs. Chronic Masturbation
For example- if you confess to me that you masturbate “a lot,” well, I might call that naughty. Masturbation can be something wonderful! It feels so so good, the teasing, touching, stroking, changing up your tempo and grip. To determine if it puts you on the naughty or nice list, we need to figure out a few things. Does your masturbation take the place of a regular active sex life with another human being? Do you jerk off in inappropriate places, such as the restroom at work or in the shower at the gym? Do you stroke and edge multiple times a day, adding up to an hour or more of stroking? Well, then that’s not regular masturbation, pet. That puts you in the category of being a chronic masturbator, and stroker boys go on the naughty list!
Cocksucking vs. Cumeating
Another example: If you have kissed someone after they swallowed your cum, and thought “That’s not so bad!”, That’s pretty nice. If you’ve shot your load in a woman, and then a bit later licked her pussy and thought “Mmm, she tastes so good!”, Nice again. If you’ve swiped up your precum off the tip of your dick and slurped it off your finger, I’d consider that the precipice, right there. The balance begins to tip when you start to wonder if other men taste like you. Do you wonder what she would taste like if another man fucked her? Have you tried to suck your cock and began to crave the feel of a cock in your mouth so desperately you fantasized about anybody’s cock in your mouth? If you watch POV blow job porn and wish you were the one between his legs sucking cock …That’s the other side of that coin right there, and it qualifies you as naughty!
How to Decide
Now, let me be clear, in case you are worried about finding a lump of coal in your stocking. Naughty does not mean bad! Naughty means sometimes you do something that you just can’t discuss around the water cooler at work. Naughty means you’re very very hesitant to bring it up with the person you are in a relationship with. Naughty means that the only person you can tell your sexy secrets to is a Mistress in Kentucky or one of her peers. If you are having trouble determining if you are too naughty, give me a call, and I’ll help you figure it out!
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I always love the naughty side, but you knew that! I say naughty is the new nice. Ms. Stephanie, you are certainly a Mistress that can encourage all kinds of naughty! It’s too bad guilt is associated with pleasure…it shouldn’t be. I love how you touched on all kinds of kinks.
Happy New Year my Mistress friend! xxoo
This holiday season totally wore me down and kicked my butt!! Everytime I try to get hard and off I go soft????????. It doesn’t help when I have to get up early at 4am while I try to do this close to midnight. As far as water cooler talk with co workers about my crossdressing and getting off no way!!! I only work with them and that’s as far as it goes. I don’t want to see them outside of work. Everytime I want to get off something always comes up????????. In Ms Ambers latest blog I mentioned for 2017 is to eat less junk food/lose weight(40 lbs) I gained way too much weight and got too fat. At my age it becomes more difficult to lose weight. That’s not good at all. Also watch less TV and go to bed earlier. Call ldw for feminization training/fantasies/(Ms Violet is really pushing me to do a submissive contract with her so she can do this to me) wear more women’s clothes/bra/panties without no one noticing(though I want 3 women to accidentally to find out but scared in their reaction????????????????) I’m 46 treated like I’m 6 and 76 by my family????????????