What the HECK!!! Not a single chatty or kink related blog post in the entire month of November? Geez Louise…
I suppose it hasn’t been one thing keeping me from writing, it’s been several, so here, in short form, is a list!

  • You heard the boyfriend “moved in” for the most part, right? He’s the one who suggests several years ago that I look into trying my hand at phone sex, and boy was he right! He travels for work, so is usually here on the weekend for sure, and sometimes one night during the week. He’s very very open minded about engaging with me in some of my kink play, and we are having a lot of fun making some fantasies into reality! He’s not technically submissive, but we are definitely in a female led relationship.
  •  Yes, I had laryngitis again this year! I’m aware that it is a yearly pattern, so I’ve put a note to myself on my calendar for next October, so I don’t get into the same mess. I suspect it’s allergies- maybe I should just go on a yearly cruise while the leaves fall and the yard guy removes them from my yard! Oddly enough, actual laryngitis isn’t an illness; it’s just a kink in the natural flow of my life. No talking means I can only use the very well trained slaves to help me around the house.
  • Thanksgiving was a lot of fun. Had the traditional small one with mom, and then followed that up with a kink-themed Friendsgiving. It was more of an open house format, but everyone was invited to be open minded and accepting of the different ways we celebrate relationships. I had several sissy maids decked out in what you would consider the traditional maid uniforms, but each outfit catered to a different kink- chastity cage for one, butt plug and nipple clamps for another, etc. Variety is the spice of life, right?
  • A poor little mama kitty was dumped here, and you know despite my strict ways with you, I’m an animal lover! Some of you already have sent virtual bouquets to help take care of the crew, and I appreciate that beyond words. Many people seem to think domestic cats should just be left outside to hunt, a survival of the fittest sort of thing, but these kittens will eventually go to homes where they will be loved and cared for. (Probably after the holidays, though- I don’t think people think things through when they give animals as gifts!)
  • As an only child, I don’t “do” a big family Christmas, but somewhere in between all these holidays my girlfriends and I do go cut loose, leaving all responsibility behind for a weekend of fun, shopping, and maybe some kink – and I just may kiss and tell!. (As a side note, the local family I sponsored for Christmas will be generously blessed, again with no small thanks to you, with your Amazon gift  cards!)