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PhoneSex Beginnings

I’m sure you’ve noticed my lack of communication lately, and I do want to apologize for not keeping you abreast of why that is. Nothing terrible, kind of fantastic, actually.
I’ve told the story before about how an ex boyfriend and I picked up our friendship a few years after graduation with an intense phonesex relationship, with plenty of friendship and fun thrown in. In addition, we’d hook up whenever our paths crossed, whether I went back to Indianapolis, or he came to my neck of the woods.

We were talking one night and he told me he had seen and advertisement in the Indianapolis Star for “adult phone actress”! He knew I was certainly naughty enough, so I thought I may as well check them out. I did, and it was certainly trial by fire! It was one of those “chat lines” where my goal was to encourage the guy to come off the free line over to the “explicit” phone sex side. I’m not going to talk smack about them, or the other places I found. I will say this: finding LDW was like coming home. Being able to be true to my personality, taking calls from intelligent kinky generous men, and having an amazing group of colleagues is a dream come true.
I’d say “to make a long story short” but I think I’m already past that…

Sharing My Space

My old friend, Evan, and I have been talking ALOT over the past year or so. Like daily. There have been visits, over nights, a few days spent together. He’s been on the hunt for a job that allows him to travels between Indianapolis and here permanently , and he’s finally found one. I know I’ve said a thousand times I’m committed to being single, I don’t want to share my space, but after the time we have spent together, and all the communication, I think him being here part time, with Kentucky as him home base, I think we are going to be better than okay. I think what makes it workable is that we have been friends for over two decades.

Practice Makes Perfect

I am not nor will I ever be a switch (not even a phonesex switch!), but I am perhaps not as much of a femdom with Evan as one would imagine…yet. He knows the things I want to try, and the scenes I want to coordinate. He’ll probably never wear panties, but that doesn’t mean we won’t have some intense role play sessions where I remind him who’s in charge. I imagine a femdom relationship isn’t the norm here in the bluegrass state, so I’m not sure if we’ll get social in the BDSM community, but I am certainly going to be learning as much as I can about bondage,in addition to a few other things I’m looking forward to trying with my boy toy.
So, thank you for your patience while everything has been going on at once. My schedule is back on track, the cold is gone, the knee is better, and I am ready willing and eager to have some phone sex fun with you ASAP!