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The Importance of Communication
Did you read Ms Emma Jane’s post in which she reminded you to speak up and communicate? Just in case you didn’t (because you surely can’t keep up with all of us! ) I want to say it again. No matter how you identify yourself, submissive, bi-curious, feminine, femme-curious, no matter what, before a session begins there needs to be some communication between you and your Mistress.
Clarity is Key
When you call in to our service, or even if you use the click-to-call feature, you generally already know we are all dominant women. You know you are going to be expected to follow directions. I certainly hope you know that while many of us are intuitive, we are not mind readers. If you tell the Mistress you have selected “Mistresses, I’ll do anything for you!” you may need to be prepared to find something to shove up your ass to replicate the feeling of the strap-on she wants to use. Now wouldn’t that be unfortunate if you are just looking for a slow sensual guided masturbation call? Or what about being told to go into your wife’s lingerie drawer so you can put on her prettiest pink panties when all you really want is some tease and denial? Starting to understand?
Good Manners and Groundwork
I understand that you want to spend as much time as possible immersed in your submission to your goddess, but you must understand that a true D/s relationship doesn’t begin until the two parties have come to an agreement on what we hope to explore during the session. That’s one of the reasons the ladies here at LDW often have a questionnaire on their blogs, so we can understand your fantasy before you call! We also are all generally reachable by email at our first name @enchatrixempire.com (ie: stephanie@enchantrixempire.com). Please, take the time to communicate with us! Just remember to mind your manners! Rude unruly subs may get exactly what they deserve!
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Great blog Ms Stephanie! So good of you to remind the callers that no matter how talented the ladies of LDW may be, we are not mind readers. We must communicate before we get started to set rules and boundaries that keep us all safe, happy and satisfied. It is the D/s foundation.
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What an informative blog. I couldn’t agree with you more Ms.Stephanie on Communication, Good manners, and Groundwork. What we say is an important way of getting our message across through verbal communication and effective speaking but using our voices is just a tip of the iceberg. It also helps a great deal when callers share his particular fantasy and not have mistress guess what he is into.