Being a phone sex mistress can lead to some interesting discussions in Yahoo and on calls. People ask “How did you become a mistress? or “When did you start doing domination?” I know guys really aren’t asking for my life story, but I think there are some relevant things . . . → Read More: Guided Masturbation Phone Sex]]> On Being a PhoneSex Mistress

Being a phone sex mistress can lead to some interesting discussions in Yahoo and on calls. People ask “How did you become a mistress? or “When did you start doing domination?” I know guys really aren’t asking for my life story, but I think there are some relevant things that you should know, that have shaped me into the person I am today. I am the only child of upper-middle class parents, in addition being the first granddaughter on one side, and the first grandchild on the other side. I’m not spoiled, by any means, as far as that stereo-typical hissy fit throwing immature brat who doesn’t know how to do anything because it’s always been done for her. I take great pride in knowing I can take care of myself, my home, and my yard. I simply feel that I shouldn’t actually have to, if I don’t want to!
My Dominant Personality Takes Control

Having a naturally dominant personality, I tend to command attention with just my presence when I enter a room. I can guess it may be because of my looks, but I also believe it is because of my slender frame perched on a sexy set of high heels- which I do sometimes wear! (I know I usually tell you I am most comfortable in a 2-2.5 inch heel, which is true, but a higher heel can really be a fun accessory!) Physically, my presence will draw you to me, and on the phone, my words and voice will do the same. One of the things I have come to learn in my mid-thirties is not only does my presence consistently command the attention of the sexy college boys I come in contact with, but also the older men still see me as young enough to be fun, but mature enough to be extremely sexy. I’ve also learned that generally speaking, things work out much better for you if you do things MY way.

Guiding Your Masturbatory Mayhem
Perhaps that is one of the reasons I enjoy a guided masturbation phone sex session so much. I not only love telling you what to do, but I also enjoy when you follow directions! I have years of studying men, their physical responses, their audible reactions, knowing what those sounds mean and how to get a guy to make that sound again- I love that! You might even say it arouses me…stimulates me…maybe…lol You have been grabbing that piece of flesh for pleasure your entire life, same old same old- stroking the same speed, the same length of time, the same style…decades of copy-cat stimulation. Do you ever even switch hands?!Try something different. Let a woman who knows what makes men feel good guide your hands and your fingers, (and any other sexually stimulating devices I may decide to incorporate!) to bring you to the very brink of explosion…
It’s a very basic fundamental truth. Your day will be much better if you just do things the way you are told. I know what kind of cock control you need, and I am always willing to allow you to follow my directions!
Ms. Stephanie

I can imagine with the chill of winter just around the corner, you may be stuck inside more than you want to be. It sucks, I know, but this particular phonesex Empress will do her best to be here a bit more to keep you company. That, of course, is contingent . . . → Read More: Female Domination for Fun]]> Flexible Phone Sex

I can imagine with the chill of winter just around the corner, you may be stuck inside more than you want to be. It sucks, I know, but this particular phonesex Empress will do her best to be here a bit more to keep you company. That, of course, is contingent on my office being completed, and although I can certainly motivate the guys doing the actual work, there are some things even I can’t control- rain, siding coming in on time, windows going in correctly- I learned recently that there are very very few houses that are truly level, square and plumb…and I certainly have one that is less than! Love my little cottage, though, and I think YOU will really enjoy the access you will have to me when I have that super quiet space to spend time with you in. (Yes!!! Nearly soundproof, so the neighborhood can go on around me, and you should never hear my dogs!)

Femme Domme By Day

I really do enjoy having the opportunity to use my femdom skills on the renovation and construction guys, and they do respond well to any special requests I have had, or last minute changes, which really reinforces my belief that females are truly the dominant gender-which I am sure you already knew, right? That’s what brought you here, the innate knowledge that women know best, and your desire to have a woman take over, control you, dominate you. That is what keeps you coming back to seek out one special mistress of femdom, or to sample from the buffet of femdom phonesex  offered to you here – your need for domination by a sexy femdom mistress.

Phone Sex Femdomme By Night

Anyway, what I really wanted to make sure you know is that starting Monday, November 7, 2011, lovely, sexy construction men will be putting siding up and installing new windows, and probably other things as they come up…maybe even my Christmas lights, since they will be up there! I will also be having the electrician in to rewire my spare bedroom which will then be soundproofed so I can use it as an office, so life is pretty exciting in my neck of the woods lately!

I am sure this will all interfere with my sleep/wake cycle, as you all know I am a night-owl, but no doubt I will be able to catch a nap and still be here for you at my regular times. Just keep an eye on my schedule page  for any changes! Stay warm and cozy, and don’t be a stranger!

Been having a lot of fun with a handful of callers who are doing some experimenting with food on our  phone sex calls. I went looking at some of the polls at the Enchantrix Empire, our  sexy social network, to see if there was anything interesting there, and while there was, . . . → Read More: Phone Sex Food Play]]>
Gustatory Masturbation

Been having a lot of fun with a handful of callers who are doing some experimenting with food on our  phone sex calls. I went looking at some of the polls at the Enchantrix Empire, our  sexy social network, to see if there was anything interesting there, and while there was, it didn’t really speak about what I am playing around with in my mind.
It starts with the fact that a lot of you can’t have toys of any sort, can’t keep them because of a lack of privacy. Then there is the contingent of you who want to eat the results of your happy ending in a new and different way. I did read Ms Layla’s blog about a callers yummy cum cake  (sounds like a fun time!) and that sounds more like what I am seeking. Different textures, consistencies, and sensations. All edible, for the inevitable cum eating that will happen after our guided masturbation session.
Kinky Phone Sex Shopping

I like things you have on hand, or can easily stick in a cabinet without drawing a lot of attention to or curiosity about. One dear caller is all about going shopping, and right now we are working on being creative with a few “recipes” that still need perfecting. One thing he has experimented with is the pearls that you make tapioca pudding with-the large ones, though. You can purchase them from your local grocer usually, and then just read the directions on how to “re-hydrate” them. I think once he gets the timing right, we will probably use some sort of bag to hold the pearls in, and he can play that way. We are also trying to get the proportions right for cornstarch and oil, so it still has some of the weird clingy feeling of cornstarch mixed with water, but just a little slippery. I’ve also used some more traditional things, such as mayonnaise, peanut butter, honey, syrup…but I like to actually make you go shop, so the shopping is sort of like a foreplay.

Phone Sex Food Exchange

Do you have any favorite recipes for orgasm inducing food play? Any special secret sauces that make the masturbation experience a little more fun, a bit more kinky? I’d love to hear about it, and if you leave a comment here on my blog, I’m sure some of my adventurous readers would enjoy hearing your ideas!

I was all ready to sit and write a completely different blog entry, about different aspects of some of the sissy phone sex calls  I get, and enjoy, and how I strive to help callers really fulfill their goals to be as much of a full time sissy as . . . → Read More: Sexy and Addictive Cockteasing]]> More Than Sissy Phone Sex

I was all ready to sit and write a completely different blog entry, about different aspects of some of the sissy phone sex calls  I get, and enjoy, and how I strive to help callers really fulfill their goals to be as much of a full time sissy as they choose to be.
Then, playing around looking for my new summer hours I ran into a caller who I had never had the opportunity to chat with before, a lovely gentleman who I found on the Enchantrix Empire . We were having a bit of chat getting to know each other, discussing some of the times I’d been a bit harsher than my usual, and when I was sharing some of the details ( riding crops, brush bristles) I could tell he was getting a bit …excited…
Cock Control from Ketucky
Well, obviously I couldn’t allow that to go on all willy-nilly, that arousal that leads to tentative touching, and then actual stroking! Over a long and laughter filled call, I slowly took control, weaving a story while directing the touching I permitted, guiding him into a place where he felt that it was my hand, my fingers, teasing and touching, sliding and probing. Then, I made him stop. Quit touching. Stop stroking. No probing. Just breathing, and listening to my laughter. The laughter that began when I pulled my hand away and heard him whimper…
Redefining Sadistic Seduction
Often, guys will find me on yahoo messenger and ask me if I am sadistic, if I am a “ball busting mistress” and I inevitably tell them no, because I just don’t think of myself that way. What occurred to me, though, during and after that call, is that I am sort of sadistic, in my own very sweet way. I enjoy making you ache and whimper. I adore making you beg to touch yourself. I’m sure that you would consider that sadistic, and that it makes you feel as if your balls are going to burst…and I am sure those gentle taps and flicks against your skin could be considered harsh. So, I’m rethinking my stance- I don’t necessarily enjoy just hurting you because you are naughty- not just jumping in to strict sadistic Stephanie mode. . I do, however, enjoy that sharp, sudden bit of pain interspersed between erotically delicious pleasure. It makes my heart race, makes my pulse pound, and I know it makes you throb…
So, if you like that slow build-up to tortuous ecstasy, that rise in anticipation, and that uncertainty about the timing of your final outcome, well, I’m all for that! Tease and denial ? Tease and tease more likely…

Talk to you soon!

Stephanie

I know a few of you have asked me on a call how I came to be involved in phone sex. I’ve touched on it, not wanting to take up your call time with my personal naughty history, so I thought I’d take the time now to share . . . → Read More: Masturbating for Your Phone Sex Mistress]]> The Making of a Sexual Being

I know a few of you have asked me on a call how I came to be involved in phone sex. I’ve touched on it, not wanting to take up your call time with my personal naughty history, so I thought I’d take the time now to share a bit more about what led me down this path of erotica and into the Empire of LDW.
My second “real” boyfriend, K., and I had quite an active sex life, and we had an exceptionally good time with it. Lots of impromptu locations, near-misses with public indecency, and plenty of creative exploration. Remember, I love to read, and porn was one of my favorite things to read-smart or smutty, I didn’t care, I just absorbed it all. Apparently some things soaked in better than others, and I began at that time to understand the fun to be had as a sexual being, but also the reputation one could have if you just took your pleasures wherever you wanted.
The Sex Organ Between Your Ears

As these things do, our young love didn’t stand the test of time, and we parted, moved on, I moved away…we were not enemies, we just lost touch. Then one day, out of the blue, he made contact, just of checking in, and we sort of began a flirtation, then a bunch of “remember whens” and that led to him getting turned on, some erotic talk, and then some good old fashioned phone sex. Of course, him being married at the time, it was often in his office, at night, when he had the time to relax a bit and stroke himself. At first it was all about making him follow directions, but then I realised it sort of turned me on- I was actually having a physical response! I began to play along, a little bit, and then he sent me a lovely vibrator, and things sort of escalated from there. At one point he had changed jobs, and was in a cubicle, rather than an office. One of my favorite things to do was to call him randomly in the middle of the day, when I had been playing with my toy, and make him listen to me for a few minutes when he could do absolutely nothing about it except get hard.  Truly an exceptional way to be a cock tease! I think I began to realise then the power of my sexuality in a more concrete way, that it wasn’t just my hands, my mouth, my curves…it was the total package!
Erotic Phone Sex Empress
Even if I remained totally dressed when I called him I always enjoyed talking him through his stroking, listening to his breathing, slowing his strokes, even stopping him sometimes, but ultimately having him  masturbate for me until he had one of those explosive orgasms that I enjoying being a part of.
One day K. and I were chatting and he said he had seen an advertisement for a “phone actress” in the help wanted section in his local newspaper, and had immediately thought of me. At the time I was working and going to college part time, and thought a few extra bucks wouldn’t hurt anything, plus I would get to listen to the sounds men make when they stroke. Additionally, I wouldn’t have to sully my reputation as that sweet girl next door by slaking  my thirst for erotica with a multitude of local men. That was about six years ago, and in that time I have heard a lot of interesting things on the other end of the phone! I’ve got to say, as much as I adore a good intense and creative session, I am still a big fan of you stroking for me, just the way I tell you to, and hearing the noises you make when you explode. That’s one of the things I love best about being here for the last nearly 3 years-without exception, you all know that your incredible orgasm is my goal, and you trust me to get you to it in a way that makes both of us very happy.

Talk to you soon!

Stephanie

When asked what some of my favorite types of calls are, I inevitably say I enjoy a good tease and denial call. As a matter of fact, that is one of the four I listed when I was interviewed by Ms Tia.  The thing is, though, unless . . . → Read More: Erotic Cocktease Phone Sex]]> Enjoying a Cocktease

When asked what some of my favorite types of calls are, I inevitably say I enjoy a good tease and denial call. As a matter of fact, that is one of the four I listed when I was interviewed by Ms Tia.  The thing is, though, unless you ask specifically for denial, I am a big fan of just drawing out the teasing, bringing you to the edge, then backing up, slowing down, and starting all over again- sometimes even using cold water (or ice!) to cool your jets… I don’t understand the entire psychology behind YOUR enjoyment of it, but I know the control I exert over you certainly turns me on!

Mindful Masturbation

A lot of the men I have encountered, here and at home, just grab ahold of them selves and start pumping up and down, only concerned with that “happy ending”.  What I find with guided masturbation is that you get a chance to slow down, to feel the build up, enjoy the journey, not just the destination. I want you to stroke slowly, try some caresses, some gentle squeezing. Tease yourself, seduce your cock, make it tremble and twitch-just like I would if I were there! Believe me, the orgasm you will achieve while I whisper in your ear will be enough to leave your knees shaking when we are done.

It's all about the tease...

Erotic Cocktease

Tonight, instead of just laying there with that tissue and some lube, try something a little more erotic. Seduce yourself.  Enjoy a  phonesex call with a sweet sensuous Empress who will guide you as you tease and explore. Listen to my enjoyment, my soft laughter, as we work together to build you up so the explosion will be unforgettable.Will I let you finish? Will I allow an orgasm? How swollen and throbbing will you be before I am done toying with you? Will I ever be done toying with you? Teasing you- it’s one of my greatest  pleasures. Indulge me….

Talk to you soon!
Empress Stephanie, your Erotic Seductress
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