Sissy Subs and Maids
Many of you have asked if I have a live-in sub, or a sissy maid, and while I don’t have full-time submissives, I do have a guest room. This makes it easy for someone to step in and settle in and spend some time spoiling me and waiting on my friends and I. How do I know that a sub is a good candidate to cook and clean for me? Well, that is why I ask some of the questions I do! Basic informational conversations that set the stage for a good call, are all part of weaving your fantasy so we both enjoy it!
Submissive Training for Beginners
When a caller tells me “I want to be a submissive.” I inevitably ask them “What skills do you have?”,”Have you served a Mistress in real life before?” and “What are your strengths and specialties?” because frankly, a guy who is an amazing handyman, or gives muscle-melting tongue massages is in no way going to do me any good wearing an apron, now is he? Obviously, a sub can be trained to do whatever his mistress requires of him, but sometimes it is much easier not trying to pound a square peg into a round hole (more on that “pounding” thing later…lol) If a mistress is lucky enough to find a sub with no bad habits, it makes it so much easier to cultivate all the best of his particular skill set.
Pounding a Sissy Hole
This is another side of being submissive. Strap on play, servicing my lovers, sucking any and all cocks I provide, or order you to seek out…That’s a lot of fun and games, and not every sub is looking for that sort of play, actually. A lot of you may think you are supposed to do “whatever Mistress wants” but a good D/s relationship is actually mutually beneficial, providing for the needs of each party. A sub needs to be controlled, and guided, to have someone else in charge. And the dominant mistress, well, she needs things to go her way, and find a way to make that happen! So yes, one of the things I absolutely enjoy is the rush of power that envelopes me when I bring you further than you ever expected in taking possession of your deepest secret desires. All other things being equal, I will take the sub who is ready for strap-on play, who is bi-curious, or ready to admit they love all things manly and want to be a sissy servicing a real or realistic cock. Something about taking you to that place of vulnerability, of subspace, really turns me on, and the more intense your submission and capitulation are, the more of an adrenaline rush I get.
Ready to play?
Try this out. Let yourself be taken under the gentle caring dominant wing of Ms. Stephanie, who will turn you out as a spectacularly submissive specimen ready to show us your strengths as we use your weaknesses against you. Drop me a line-give me a call- I’d love to guide you on your first steps in this adventure.
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Do you have any use for men that do not want to perform oral sex on men? I know some ball room dance, I sing sometimes help people to laugh and have many maintenance skills, including HVAC. We have talked before.
Stuart- I have use for all sorts of men, performing oral sex on other men is not a requirement! I do enjoy being entertained by jokes and also by listening to a song or two. It’s been absolutely ages since we spoke! Hope you are well!
That’s a wonderful line you finished with there, Ms. Stephanie!
A Domme nurtures a submissive’s strengths to be used for her benefit, while controlling him by exploiting his weaknesses!
Not all submissives are alike and it is to the benefit of the Domme to mould and control each one differently!
Thank you teasetoy! It is a very nurturing relationship initially, in many ways, but people often don’t see that. Curious persons also often do not know there are as many different ways to be submissive as there are Domme’s to submit to!
*squirm* Exactly Ms. Stephanie!
And not all subs ‘fit’ with a certain Domme, and not all Dommes will ‘fit’ with a certain sub. As with any relationship, open and honest communication is the key, to see if they are right for each other!